WHO IS CLOSER TO YOU?

Human is the most interesting creature on earth who has all the powers to either construct something or destruct something. The human evolution by now, has brought up enormous amount of changes in our day-to-day life. We have become dependent on gadgets to be with us all the time and remove our boredom. Is it really fine to have expectations from something which is not even aware of its existence?  Listening to this might sound arduous but it's the truth. This has become a human nature of giving attention to something or someone who's not going to stay forever. We rather focus on something we don't have or can't get. Development or I say, invention of SOCIAL MEDIA. The very first intention was "to connect people" followed by entertainment information seeking, personal utility and convenience. Just think once, between all the years since you were active on social media to till now, how many actual friends you have got and how many deceived or hurt you? Answers would be unknowingly different and surprising.

What made me write this article? My siblings, with whom I've spent almost 18 years, are not home from past 2 weeks(They're somewhere different). I am the only child in the house right now.  All these days, it's not that I'm bored but I've realized the need of being close to someone who's actually been close to you. People make friends, have partners, have virtual friends. There are many kids who are always partying or gathering up with their friends. And what if one day, when something terrible happens, they leave you? God forbidden, if your long term partner leaves you, you'd feel broken. My only point here is that when teenagers or adults are with "their people", they forget about "their people" at home. I'm not saying that you should quit meeting your friends or partner but it is equally important to give importance to your family. Don't elongate for someone's text staring at your phone, during that time, talk to your mum, sister, brother , father, anyone who is available. Ask them about their day, listen to their life changing advices and most importantly give time to them. Because before any of your friend, partner or even your phone , you've got them. They are going to be there with  you in your bad or good. They are the ones never judging you and rather giving confidence to you. When you're depressed, not confident enough , doesn't feel like you or any other problem, talk to your family. They are the ones you can blindly trust on. Life is too short to have regrets. For some people, in stereotype countries, parents especially father might not be friendly and in that situation. But it's always one of the parents who is there for you. For some people, it's the mother or the father. Make them your best friend and clear your heart out.

It's better late than never.